My fiancee's c*ck blocking friend?

[vgraham20744]

My fiancee has a friend that is constantly c*ck blocking and acts like he is in competition for my man's affection, time, energy, etc. We have twins on the way and work different schedules so its hard for us to schedule spending time together or to go out. Whenever we are out somewhere or just chillin in the house, his friend calls and asks what he is doin etc...then proceeds to ask what time he will be done. Take for instance, we went to the movies last weekend, his friend called and asked what he was doing because he wanted to spend some time with him, or hang out. My fiancee told him we were out. He then proceeded to ask my fiancee what time we would be done because he wanted to go to a bar or somewhere with him. My fiancee said around 3. I was pissed. First of all why s he asking what time we will be done, and why did my fiancee even answer the question. It somehow came up yesterday and I told him that he doesnt owe him an explaination where we are going, time done etc. Am I wrong?My fiancee actually got mad because I have been trying to tell him that this friend acts like a female. He is constantly calling to ask my fiancee to take him somewhere. He doesnt have a car (because of a DUI). He is basically dependant on my friend and the apron strings need to be cut now, we have 2 kids on the way.

[prinsisss]

No... you are not wrong.

[Baby<3Britt]

You need time with your soon to be husband,but your husband also needs time with his friends.Hes getting ready to be a dad,let him have his fun now,cuz once the kids come,he wont have any freedom at all really.Tell him that you want to spend monday-friday with him,and that saturday hes free to do whatever he likes.And Sunday go to church of course. =]Hope I helped.

[daeraelle]

Sounds like his friend has a girly man crush on your fiancee. That's actually sort of gross. It also shocks me that your husband would defend his friends actions. Your man is engaged to YOU, you have kids on the way and he's more interested in being a designated driver for a grown man that obviously didn't know what a taxi is. Maybe you should sit down with him and ask him if he's ready for all this. Is he really ready to give up his irresponsible friends for a family? Let him know he needs to make a decision now, his kids will need a father, not a friend, and he needs to start acting like one. Next, ask him if there's anything going on between him and his friend you need to know about. There has to be a reason the guy is so jealous of you, and hates for him to spend time with you.